{"id":10889,"date":"2014-06-23T02:44:34","date_gmt":"2014-06-23T02:44:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/?p=10889"},"modified":"2020-09-11T13:04:09","modified_gmt":"2020-09-11T17:04:09","slug":"beach-7","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/2014\/06\/23\/beach-7\/","title":{"rendered":"Beach"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This was my second time to Topsail and all in all it was a pretty solid week.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0519copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"900\" height=\"900\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10890\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0519copy.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0519copy-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0519copy-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0519copy-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0519copy-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0519copy-160x160.jpg 160w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not always easy taking 6 kiddos to the beach- and expecting the littles to get along at all times.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0522copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10891\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0522copy.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0522copy-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0522copy-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Because they won&#8217;t.  And that&#8217;s why it is good to have big kids as well.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0541copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"600\" height=\"900\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10892\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0541copy.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0541copy-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>To simply remind you that there are ups and downs but at the end of the day- this time flies.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0550copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"900\" height=\"900\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10893\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0550copy.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0550copy-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0550copy-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0550copy-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0550copy-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There was a time when I thought I wanted a ton of kids.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0551copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"900\" height=\"900\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10894\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0551copy.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0551copy-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0551copy-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0551copy-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0551copy-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And someone asked me recently if I wanted more kids.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0555copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"600\" height=\"900\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10895\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0555copy.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0555copy-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Um no.  4 is enough.  My plate is so full<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0561copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"900\" height=\"900\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10896\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0561copy.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0561copy-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0561copy-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0561copy-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0561copy-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Because I do have my 5th baby in this girl&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0563copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"600\" height=\"900\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10897\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0563copy.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0563copy-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I am tapped out.  There is just no other way around it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0567copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10898\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0567copy.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0567copy-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0567copy-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And while I love these kiddos more than anything in the world, it&#8217;s time to refocus a bit on myself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0576copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"600\" height=\"900\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10899\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0576copy.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0576copy-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I am happy I started my family relatively young- because I have fun with my older boys like nothing else.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0594copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"900\" height=\"900\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10900\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0594copy.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0594copy-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0594copy-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0594copy-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0594copy-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But I am 100 percent realizing that I need to figure out myself as well.  What&#8217;s next.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0620copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"900\" height=\"900\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10901\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0620copy.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0620copy-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0620copy-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0620copy-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0620copy-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And did I mention that my oldest turned 17?  Do you realize how close to 20 that is??<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0639copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"600\" height=\"900\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10902\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0639copy.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0639copy-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I will never forget the day I had him.. thinking I was too young, that I had no idea what I was doing, that I seriously wasn&#8217;t prepared&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0647copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10903\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0647copy.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0647copy-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0647copy-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s all good. He teaches me new things every day.<\/p>\n<p>When Blake makes his joker face&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0649copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10904\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0649copy.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0649copy-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0649copy-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>These pics were all taken with my small samsung nx30 or whatever it is called.  I haven&#8217;t gone through my big camera pics yet.  Back to hotel living.  Hoping things settle down soon.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0661copy.jpg\" alt=\"SAMSUNG CSC\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10905\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0661copy.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0661copy-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0661copy-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This was my second time to Topsail and all in all it was a pretty solid week. It&#8217;s not always easy taking 6 kiddos to the beach- and expecting the littles to get along at all times. Because they won&#8217;t. And that&#8217;s why it is good to have big kids as well. To simply remind you that there are ups and downs but at the end of the day- this time flies. There was a time when I thought I wanted a ton of kids. And someone asked me recently if I wanted more kids. Um no. 4 is enough. My plate is so full Because I do have my 5th baby in this girl&#8230;. I am tapped out. There is just no other way around it. And while I love these kiddos more than anything in the world, it&#8217;s time to refocus a bit on myself. I am happy I started my family relatively young- because I have fun with my older boys like nothing else. But I am 100 percent realizing that I need to figure out myself as well. What&#8217;s next. And did I mention that my oldest turned 17? Do you realize how close to 20 that is?? I will never forget the day I had him.. thinking I was too young, that I had no idea what I was doing, that I seriously wasn&#8217;t prepared&#8230;. But it&#8217;s all good. He teaches me new things every day. When Blake makes his joker face&#8230;. These pics were all taken with my small samsung nx30 or whatever it is called. I haven&#8217;t gone through my big camera pics yet. Back to hotel living. Hoping things settle down soon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":10905,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10889","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/SAM_0661copy.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10889","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10889"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10889\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17585,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10889\/revisions\/17585"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10905"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10889"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10889"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10889"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}