{"id":16489,"date":"2019-09-20T21:14:13","date_gmt":"2019-09-21T01:14:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/?p=16489"},"modified":"2020-02-06T20:16:46","modified_gmt":"2020-02-07T01:16:46","slug":"longer-than-last-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/2019\/09\/20\/longer-than-last-time\/","title":{"rendered":"Longer than last time"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>So I realized the other day that we have now lived here longer than we did the last time we lived here. But it seems like a fraction of the time. I don&#8217;t know why. Last time I had more kids to worry about making this their new home and if they were happy. But I still worry today about all four and their new situations. It&#8217;s hard to say. Maybe being older helps, maybe not missing my old town helps&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/cZvXca4DTMiCUqqP0Z0hQ-e1568989009657-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16492\"\/><figcaption>Facetiming Blake in Asheville<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>At any rate we have been in Chapel Hill for 15.5 months now. Last time it was 13 months.  It&#8217;s so weird to<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\" look back (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/2012\/09\/16\/another-weekend-come-and-gone\/\" target=\"_blank\"> look back<\/a> on this month back when we lived here before. Same things like XC meets but with different kids. All the kids being so much younger. All the kids living under one roof. <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"So bittersweet.  (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/2012\/09\/24\/the-best-kinda-day\/\" target=\"_blank\">So bittersweet. <\/a>  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fullsizeoutput_593a-768x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16493\"\/><figcaption>These two are my youngest now&#8230;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s still hot here- I am looking forward to Fall. And getting the house more pulled together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/IMG_1509.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/IMG_1509.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/IMG_1509-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Andy and I went to see Beck and Cage the Elephant. We had front row seats which were awesome. We ran into one of our friends from Ohio \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"769\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/uQ0RLGvTPSVbMEcvx04BA-e1568989138388-769x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16495\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"769\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/IMG_1525-e1568989239753-1024x769.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16496\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/IMG_3478-e1568989282160-768x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16497\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Trying to figure out how to arrange our screened in porch. It&#8217;s a lot smaller than our last one (which was actually too big and had a lot of useless space). This one has a fireplace so we are working on where to put the t.v. and adding curtains to reduce the sun glare and for privacy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/8A35E407-4684-43CE-BBAE-89B81A4FA450-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16498\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Cole and Eva started school. Sophmore year for Cole and 4th grade for Eva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/7B609F6A-8B22-4F3D-A436-495107F368B1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/7B609F6A-8B22-4F3D-A436-495107F368B1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/7B609F6A-8B22-4F3D-A436-495107F368B1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/7B609F6A-8B22-4F3D-A436-495107F368B1-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/7B609F6A-8B22-4F3D-A436-495107F368B1-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/7B609F6A-8B22-4F3D-A436-495107F368B1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/7B609F6A-8B22-4F3D-A436-495107F368B1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/7B609F6A-8B22-4F3D-A436-495107F368B1.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Both seem happy with how things are going so far.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1CF79BE8-A4F1-4F7A-A0A0-0DB2B47D4364-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1CF79BE8-A4F1-4F7A-A0A0-0DB2B47D4364-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1CF79BE8-A4F1-4F7A-A0A0-0DB2B47D4364-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1CF79BE8-A4F1-4F7A-A0A0-0DB2B47D4364-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1CF79BE8-A4F1-4F7A-A0A0-0DB2B47D4364-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1CF79BE8-A4F1-4F7A-A0A0-0DB2B47D4364-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1CF79BE8-A4F1-4F7A-A0A0-0DB2B47D4364-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1CF79BE8-A4F1-4F7A-A0A0-0DB2B47D4364.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/2FF18E25-C2B4-4729-A537-BE507DE37FE7-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/2FF18E25-C2B4-4729-A537-BE507DE37FE7-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/2FF18E25-C2B4-4729-A537-BE507DE37FE7-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/2FF18E25-C2B4-4729-A537-BE507DE37FE7-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/2FF18E25-C2B4-4729-A537-BE507DE37FE7-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/2FF18E25-C2B4-4729-A537-BE507DE37FE7-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/2FF18E25-C2B4-4729-A537-BE507DE37FE7-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/2FF18E25-C2B4-4729-A537-BE507DE37FE7.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Cole&#8217;s first XC meet<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fullsizeoutput_59e5-768x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16502\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>After spending the day in the pool these boys were tired! Love the crossed paws.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/cLGQV8ioTUSQycoNy6enLw-e1568989565544-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16503\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Eva loves when the dogs are in the car when I pick her up from school. Oakley rode the whole way home like this \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"769\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/JqJui4iTE2wjz5nCUsTA-e1568989610984-769x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16504\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>New Ohio State bandanas for the boys- Go Bucks!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fullsizeoutput_5aa4-576x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fullsizeoutput_5aa4-576x1024.jpeg 576w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fullsizeoutput_5aa4-600x1067.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fullsizeoutput_5aa4-169x300.jpeg 169w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fullsizeoutput_5aa4-768x1365.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fullsizeoutput_5aa4.jpeg 1242w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Austin came down for the weekend. Man it is so nice to have him around. A very short visit but I will take what I can get!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fullsizeoutput_5aef-768x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-16508\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Still have lots of workers coming and going trying to finish our house with no end in sight at this point. \ud83d\ude41<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So I realized the other day that we have now lived here longer than we did the last time we lived here. But it seems like a fraction of the time. I don&#8217;t know why. Last time I had more kids to worry about making this their new home and if they were happy. But I still worry today about all four and their new situations. It&#8217;s hard to say. Maybe being older helps, maybe not missing my old town helps&#8230; At any rate we have been in Chapel Hill for 15.5 months now. Last time it was 13 months. It&#8217;s so weird to look back on this month back when we lived here before. Same things like XC meets but with different kids. All the kids being so much younger. All the kids living under one roof. So bittersweet. It&#8217;s still hot here- I am looking forward to Fall. And getting the house more pulled together. Andy and I went to see Beck and Cage the Elephant. We had front row seats which were awesome. We ran into one of our friends from Ohio \ud83d\ude42 Trying to figure out how to arrange our screened in porch. It&#8217;s a lot smaller than our last one (which was actually too big and had a lot of useless space). This one has a fireplace so we are working on where to put the t.v. and adding curtains to reduce the sun glare and for privacy. Cole and Eva started school. Sophmore year for Cole and 4th grade for Eva. 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