{"id":270,"date":"2007-08-06T16:55:33","date_gmt":"2007-08-06T21:55:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/2007\/08\/06\/a-big-family\/"},"modified":"2025-04-30T13:11:00","modified_gmt":"2025-04-30T17:11:00","slug":"a-big-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/2007\/08\/06\/a-big-family\/","title":{"rendered":"A big family"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This morning I saw a family on the Today show that just had their 17th kid.\u00a0 I sat there scratching my head trying to wrap my brain around the idea.\u00a0 How do they go anywhere, take a few cars?\u00a0 I am guessing that going out to dinner isn&#8217;t an option.\u00a0 They probably don&#8217;t even order pizza much.<\/p>\n<p>But as much as I don&#8217;t get <em>their<\/em> idea of the &#8220;perfect&#8221; family I realize that a lot of people don&#8217;t get mine.\u00a0 We were at a party a couple nights ago and someone asked me if I had planned to have 3 kids.\u00a0 I guess her idea was that either Cole was a mistake or that I was trying for a girl, I don&#8217;t know.\u00a0 I have always planned on having at least 3 kids.\u00a0 Just like some families only want one or two, I wanted more.\u00a0 I grew up in a family with one older sibling.\u00a0 And because of our age difference (8 years) I was always very lonely.\u00a0 Add to it the fact that my father was in the military and we moved every three years&#8230;..\u00a0 I was always so jealous of large families.\u00a0 Always having a playmate, someone around to talk to.\u00a0 Every night is a sleep-over.\u00a0 I begged my parents to have more kids, when I finally realized that it was never going to happen I started begging for a dog.<\/p>\n<p>Of course now that I am older I realize that it isn&#8217;t always one big party, but I also know it is so right for us.\u00a0 I miss my kids when they aren&#8217;t around. \u00a0 I <em>like<\/em> having a lot of people around.\u00a0 Without a pack of kids and dogs it just doesn&#8217;t feel right to me.\u00a0 And it continues as we get older.\u00a0 I can&#8217;t tell you how happy I am that my kids have a nice group of cousins.\u00a0 Cousins that they are close to.\u00a0 It just continues down the line.<\/p>\n<p>One of my favorite bloggers is <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/annamariahorner.blogspot.com\/\">Anna Maria<\/a>, a textile designer that lives on a few acres with her 5 kiddos and yellow lab.\u00a0 She talks about someday rocking her grandbabies on the front porch with her husband. \u00a0 Because in her book, the more the merrier.\u00a0 I get that.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This morning I saw a family on the Today show that just had their 17th kid.\u00a0 I sat there scratching my head trying to wrap my brain around the idea.\u00a0 How do they go anywhere, take a few cars?\u00a0 I am guessing that going out to dinner isn&#8217;t an option.\u00a0 They probably don&#8217;t even order pizza much. But as much as I don&#8217;t get their idea of the &#8220;perfect&#8221; family I realize that a lot of people don&#8217;t get mine.\u00a0 We were at a party a couple nights ago and someone asked me if I had planned to have 3 kids.\u00a0 I guess her idea was that either Cole was a mistake or that I was trying for a girl, I don&#8217;t know.\u00a0 I have always planned on having at least 3 kids.\u00a0 Just like some families only want one or two, I wanted more.\u00a0 I grew up in a family with one older sibling.\u00a0 And because of our age difference (8 years) I was always very lonely.\u00a0 Add to it the fact that my father was in the military and we moved every three years&#8230;..\u00a0 I was always so jealous of large families.\u00a0 Always having a playmate, someone around to talk to.\u00a0 Every night is a sleep-over.\u00a0 I begged my parents to have more kids, when I finally realized that it was never going to happen I started begging for a dog. Of course now that I am older I realize that it isn&#8217;t always one big party, but I also know it is so right for us.\u00a0 I miss my kids when they aren&#8217;t around. \u00a0 I like having a lot of people around.\u00a0 Without a pack of kids and dogs it just doesn&#8217;t feel right to me.\u00a0 And it continues as we get older.\u00a0 I can&#8217;t tell you how happy I am that my kids have a nice group of cousins.\u00a0 Cousins that they are close to.\u00a0 It just continues down the line. One of my favorite bloggers is Anna Maria, a textile designer that lives on a few acres with her 5 kiddos and yellow lab.\u00a0 She talks about someday rocking her grandbabies on the front porch with her husband. \u00a0 Because in her book, the more the merrier.\u00a0 I get that.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-270","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-elisalou"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/270","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=270"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/270\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20993,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/270\/revisions\/20993"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=270"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=270"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=270"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}