{"id":4377,"date":"2010-11-09T20:47:46","date_gmt":"2010-11-10T01:47:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/?p=4377"},"modified":"2025-04-30T13:12:58","modified_gmt":"2025-04-30T17:12:58","slug":"glorious-imperfections","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/2010\/11\/09\/glorious-imperfections\/","title":{"rendered":"Glorious Imperfections"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162395549\/1-of-3.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(1 of 3)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm5.static.flickr.com\/4028\/5162395549_48092b75e7_b.jpg\" alt=\"(1 of 3)\" width=\"720\" height=\"394\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Probably the perfect description of my life.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162395783\/2-of-3.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(2 of 3)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1385\/5162395783_0b6d9d086f_b.jpg\" alt=\"(2 of 3)\" width=\"720\" height=\"442\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>But we grab the moment and squeeze what we can out of it, because in a heartbeat it is gone.  And new moments are upon us.  <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162249669\/1-of-8.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(1 of 8)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1219\/5162249669_6a05746908_b.jpg\" alt=\"(1 of 8)\" width=\"480\" height=\"720\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>So who cares if I am still in my workout clothes with no make-up, or if Andy has big dark circles from a major sinus infection, or Cole jumps in and makes goofy faces.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162249841\/2-of-8.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(2 of 8)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm5.static.flickr.com\/4090\/5162249841_3eb121a876_b.jpg\" alt=\"(2 of 8)\" width=\"480\" height=\"720\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Because when the 13 year old picks up the camera and asks to take a few pictures, we say &#8220;yes please!&#8221; so he takes three and is done, and we don&#8217;t get much to choose from.  But they are all great- because they show the real life of now.  This one moment that we will never get back.  And it was a good one.  We are tired, and sick, but Eva and Cole are twirling on the floor in happy circles of &#8220;ring around the rosie&#8221; and all is well.<\/p>\n<p>And this pic, well I love it.  Just. Love.<\/p>\n<p>Because we look tired, but because we look happy.  Because I have known this guy for almost half of my life.  And I still like him \ud83d\ude42  And of course the girl who so loves her daddy but also her big brother Austin for whom she was yelling &#8220;Auuuuuu-tin!!!!.  <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162396007\/3-of-3.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(3 of 3)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm5.static.flickr.com\/4007\/5162396007_37e36fe307_b.jpg\" alt=\"(3 of 3)\" width=\"720\" height=\"480\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>And then there is the happiness I feel because tomorrow is date night.  We are meeting friends downtown for dinner and a Blue Jackets game sans kids.  And I need it.  Funny how the feeling creeps up, and I send Andy a text&#8230;. and tickets appear and babysitters are lined up and I feel like a new person.  I don&#8217;t know how we ever lived without date night.  It&#8217;s nice to feel like someone besides &#8220;mom&#8221; for a few hours.  I&#8217;m not kidding when I say I get the kiddos dinner lined up, the sitter, and I bolt out the door.  BOLT!  And breathe in the air of a person who is just thinking of themselves for a couple hours.  <\/p>\n<p>Ahhh, can&#8217;t wait.<\/p>\n<p>And then it&#8217;s back to the stinkers<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162241287\/3-of-4.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(3 of 4)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm5.static.flickr.com\/4025\/5162241287_be0fb08dc6_b.jpg\" alt=\"(3 of 4)\" width=\"480\" height=\"720\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Like the one that LOVES juice boxes<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162241063\/2-of-4.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(2 of 4)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1232\/5162241063_4fb1509349_b.jpg\" alt=\"(2 of 4)\" width=\"624\" height=\"720\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>she sees them and yells &#8220;ju ju ju ju!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162240855\/1-of-4.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(1 of 4)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1241\/5162240855_86f55d4ca1_b.jpg\" alt=\"(1 of 4)\" width=\"480\" height=\"720\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>And usually spills them everywhere because she insists on pulling out the straws<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162846914\/4-of-4.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(4 of 4)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1189\/5162846914_2452b6c004_b.jpg\" alt=\"(4 of 4)\" width=\"720\" height=\"480\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>But she&#8217;s pretty cute, so she gets away with a lot<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162855332\/3-of-8.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(3 of 8)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1315\/5162855332_83e7a6e791_b.jpg\" alt=\"(3 of 8)\" width=\"480\" height=\"720\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Even when she steals my cup of ice.  I gave up soda a long time ago, but sometimes when I have a sore throat- well nothing sounds better than a cold diet coke.  So I went to McD to get one.  And of course the girlie needed the ice.  She loves ice<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162855508\/4-of-8.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(4 of 8)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1385\/5162855508_651bc78a3c_b.jpg\" alt=\"(4 of 8)\" width=\"480\" height=\"720\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>But she looks so funny when she pops one in her mouth<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162855678\/5-of-8.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(5 of 8)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm5.static.flickr.com\/4015\/5162855678_0ee70b931b_b.jpg\" alt=\"(5 of 8)\" width=\"480\" height=\"720\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Probably a little colder than she expected<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162250547\/6-of-8.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(6 of 8)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm5.static.flickr.com\/4027\/5162250547_d3998655cc_b.jpg\" alt=\"(6 of 8)\" width=\"480\" height=\"720\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162856076\/7-of-8.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(7 of 8)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm5.static.flickr.com\/4021\/5162856076_bfd46b72f4_b.jpg\" alt=\"(7 of 8)\" width=\"565\" height=\"720\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>And of course, all is not well unless she pitches some sort of fit.  It&#8217;s all part of being 1.5, right?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5162856256\/8-of-8.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Large\" title=\"(8 of 8)\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm5.static.flickr.com\/4048\/5162856256_24a745bd26_b.jpg\" alt=\"(8 of 8)\" width=\"480\" height=\"720\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Some times I feel like doing the same.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Probably the perfect description of my life. But we grab the moment and squeeze what we can out of it, because in a heartbeat it is gone. And new moments are upon us. So who cares if I am still in my workout clothes with no make-up, or if Andy has big dark circles from a major sinus infection, or Cole jumps in and makes goofy faces. Because when the 13 year old picks up the camera and asks to take a few pictures, we say &#8220;yes please!&#8221; so he takes three and is done, and we don&#8217;t get much to choose from. But they are all great- because they show the real life of now. This one moment that we will never get back. And it was a good one. We are tired, and sick, but Eva and Cole are twirling on the floor in happy circles of &#8220;ring around the rosie&#8221; and all is well. And this pic, well I love it. Just. Love. Because we look tired, but because we look happy. Because I have known this guy for almost half of my life. And I still like him \ud83d\ude42 And of course the girl who so loves her daddy but also her big brother Austin for whom she was yelling &#8220;Auuuuuu-tin!!!!. And then there is the happiness I feel because tomorrow is date night. We are meeting friends downtown for dinner and a Blue Jackets game sans kids. And I need it. Funny how the feeling creeps up, and I send Andy a text&#8230;. and tickets appear and babysitters are lined up and I feel like a new person. I don&#8217;t know how we ever lived without date night. It&#8217;s nice to feel like someone besides &#8220;mom&#8221; for a few hours. I&#8217;m not kidding when I say I get the kiddos dinner lined up, the sitter, and I bolt out the door. BOLT! And breathe in the air of a person who is just thinking of themselves for a couple hours. Ahhh, can&#8217;t wait. And then it&#8217;s back to the stinkers Like the one that LOVES juice boxes she sees them and yells &#8220;ju ju ju ju!&#8221; And usually spills them everywhere because she insists on pulling out the straws But she&#8217;s pretty cute, so she gets away with a lot Even when she steals my cup of ice. I gave up soda a long time ago, but sometimes when I have a sore throat- well nothing sounds better than a cold diet coke. So I went to McD to get one. And of course the girlie needed the ice. She loves ice But she looks so funny when she pops one in her mouth Probably a little colder than she expected And of course, all is not well unless she pitches some sort of fit. It&#8217;s all part of being 1.5, right? Some times I feel like doing the same.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4377","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family","category-life"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4377","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4377"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4377\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21121,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4377\/revisions\/21121"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4377"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4377"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4377"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}