{"id":5070,"date":"2011-03-08T18:54:19","date_gmt":"2011-03-08T23:54:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/?p=5070"},"modified":"2025-04-30T13:12:13","modified_gmt":"2025-04-30T17:12:13","slug":"settle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/2011\/03\/08\/settle\/","title":{"rendered":"settle"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Oh the first day back is always so hard, even if we weren&#8217;t gone that long.  I miss Florida.  Even though it is sunny and somewhat warm (hey 50 something is warm to us northerners) I miss flowers and green grass and &#8220;sharpy trees&#8221; as Cole likes to call them.  Everything smelled good down there.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509971602\/img_8098.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8098\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5055\/5509971602_36dcc2cdc4.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8098\" width=\"333\" height=\"500\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>We took the kids to Universal Studios to see the new Harry Potter ride<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509977824\/harry-potter-universal.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"Harry Potter Universal\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5096\/5509977824_4222fa1290.jpg\" alt=\"Harry Potter Universal\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509989796\/harry-potter-universal.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"Harry Potter Universal\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5174\/5509989796_ca4a622d75.jpg\" alt=\"Harry Potter Universal\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509380417\/harry-potter-universal.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"Harry Potter Universal\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5098\/5509380417_499d8f4afb.jpg\" alt=\"Harry Potter Universal\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>They sold wands for $30.  We didn&#8217;t buy one<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509985996\/harry-potter-universal.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"Harry Potter Universal\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5294\/5509985996_55d4a393d9.jpg\" alt=\"Harry Potter Universal\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5510008306\/harry-potter-universal.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"Harry Potter Universal\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5136\/5510008306_41b5e6a67e.jpg\" alt=\"Harry Potter Universal\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The ride was very cool, well there were two rides but we only did one of them<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509416177\/img_8154.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8154\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5178\/5509416177_54ab98eb38.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8154\" width=\"333\" height=\"500\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Because of the girly- she couldn&#8217;t ride a whole lot<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509398229\/img_8116.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8116\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5178\/5509398229_4b0fc4080e.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8116\" width=\"333\" height=\"500\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And the things she did ride she didn&#8217;t like.  Austin and I were so afraid she was gonna puke on us.  She&#8217;s a puker.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509994258\/img_8109.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8109\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5056\/5509994258_b0453d6fe0.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8109\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s 13, he likes to check in with friends- a lot.  Plus he doesn&#8217;t like to ride a whole lot.  Something about being scared of heights.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509401815\/img_8117.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8117\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5135\/5509401815_f386b99a7c.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8117\" width=\"392\" height=\"500\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Which really wasn&#8217;t a bad thing because that meant I got to spend more time with him.  I don&#8217;t like to ride roller coasters anymore either- those days are long gone.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509405045\/img_8126.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8126\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5135\/5509405045_4c48786d28.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8126\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5510119590\/img_8199.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8199\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5296\/5510119590_5eae20c42c.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8199\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Having multi-age kids is sometimes weird- but usually works out for the best, at least for us.  Makes things easier.  Andy informed me that most families that have kids a wide age range means the dad is on his 2nd marriage.  Ha- I don&#8217;t believe it.  Because I read way too many blogs that prove other wise.  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fiveofmyown.blogspot.com\/\">Like this one<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/resolved2worship.xanga.com\/\">and this one<\/a>.<br \/>\nBut it is a lot of work, and my family isn&#8217;t even as big as either of those.  I do so love a big family though.  I smile when I think of my kids growing up, getting married, having their own kids&#8230;..<br \/>\nAnd while our trip home from Florida was probably one of our most stressful (well not counting my NYC trip home- nothing tops that)- I am so proud of how well all my kids did.  Multiple people commented on how well Eva was and Cole, well he found two women to sit with (we were all sitting apart) and he was in heaven.  That kid can make friends like no one I know.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5510023264\/img_8184.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8184\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5253\/5510023264_7e65fedf71.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8184\" width=\"333\" height=\"500\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>She fell asleep, and her daddy carried her everywhere.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5510019918\/img_8180.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8180\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5052\/5510019918_ae03bd900f.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8180\" width=\"333\" height=\"500\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>With a backache the next day to prove it.  Old man.  I don&#8217;t think he believes me when I say kids keep you young.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5510123418\/img_8208.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8208\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5296\/5510123418_5ceeee30eb.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8208\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5510127422\/img_8212.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8212\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5179\/5510127422_2eefe68e7d.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8212\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>But without these little people to drive him crazy?  He wouldn&#8217;t know what to do with himself.  He would say otherwise but really, he would get bored.  I know he would.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509531619\/img_8214.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8214\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5014\/5509531619_294d562b1f.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8214\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And even though their schedules make me crazy (and I just hit record on the NBC nightly news so we can watch about kids being over scheduled), well I just can&#8217;t imagine it any other way.  I love a busy house.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509535071\/img_8215.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8215\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5131\/5509535071_8d0ac4a824.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8215\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Right now my dogs are missing (still at the farm) and I am missing the three extra kiddos around here big time.  Mostly because I have to clean up all the food that drops on the floor!!<\/p>\n<p>Just kidding.  I miss their sweet furry faces.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5510138476\/img_8222.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8222\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5135\/5510138476_9ff6b786de.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8222\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I see braces in his future&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509542519\/img_8227.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8227\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5251\/5509542519_072feb47e4.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8227\" width=\"333\" height=\"500\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509697345\/img_8228.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8228\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5052\/5509697345_12c0de212a.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8228\" width=\"333\" height=\"500\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5510302076\/img_8229.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8229\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5011\/5510302076_3280ac8f88.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8229\" width=\"333\" height=\"500\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Time just flies by way too fast.  And short little get-a-ways like this are such a great way to reconnect.  I am so glad that Andy makes it as much of a priority as I feel it needs to be.  We are all so much better because of it.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5510306028\/img_8236.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8236\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5140\/5510306028_8285c76d11.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8236\" width=\"333\" height=\"500\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>One of the best parts of this trip was hooking up with my Aunt Jo and my cousin J<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5509709185\/img_8242.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8242\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5175\/5509709185_e7d8f0d728.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8242\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>a reminder of why family is so important.  My kids adore both of them.  More on that tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>And Blake, well he had a headache.  That happens when there are a lot of people around.  lol<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisalou.com\/blog\/photos\/photo\/5510314258\/img_8248.html\" class=\"tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium\" title=\"IMG_8248\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5211\/5510314258_c0d8143a56.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_8248\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\"><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Oh the first day back is always so hard, even if we weren&#8217;t gone that long. I miss Florida. Even though it is sunny and somewhat warm (hey 50 something is warm to us northerners) I miss flowers and green grass and &#8220;sharpy trees&#8221; as Cole likes to call them. Everything smelled good down there. We took the kids to Universal Studios to see the new Harry Potter ride They sold wands for $30. We didn&#8217;t buy one The ride was very cool, well there were two rides but we only did one of them Because of the girly- she couldn&#8217;t ride a whole lot And the things she did ride she didn&#8217;t like. Austin and I were so afraid she was gonna puke on us. She&#8217;s a puker. He&#8217;s 13, he likes to check in with friends- a lot. Plus he doesn&#8217;t like to ride a whole lot. Something about being scared of heights. Which really wasn&#8217;t a bad thing because that meant I got to spend more time with him. I don&#8217;t like to ride roller coasters anymore either- those days are long gone. Having multi-age kids is sometimes weird- but usually works out for the best, at least for us. Makes things easier. Andy informed me that most families that have kids a wide age range means the dad is on his 2nd marriage. Ha- I don&#8217;t believe it. Because I read way too many blogs that prove other wise. Like this one, and this one. But it is a lot of work, and my family isn&#8217;t even as big as either of those. I do so love a big family though. I smile when I think of my kids growing up, getting married, having their own kids&#8230;.. And while our trip home from Florida was probably one of our most stressful (well not counting my NYC trip home- nothing tops that)- I am so proud of how well all my kids did. Multiple people commented on how well Eva was and Cole, well he found two women to sit with (we were all sitting apart) and he was in heaven. That kid can make friends like no one I know. She fell asleep, and her daddy carried her everywhere. With a backache the next day to prove it. Old man. I don&#8217;t think he believes me when I say kids keep you young. But without these little people to drive him crazy? He wouldn&#8217;t know what to do with himself. He would say otherwise but really, he would get bored. I know he would. And even though their schedules make me crazy (and I just hit record on the NBC nightly news so we can watch about kids being over scheduled), well I just can&#8217;t imagine it any other way. I love a busy house. Right now my dogs are missing (still at the farm) and I am missing the three extra kiddos around here big time. Mostly because I have to clean up all the food that drops on the floor!! Just kidding. I miss their sweet furry faces. I see braces in his future&#8230; Time just flies by way too fast. And short little get-a-ways like this are such a great way to reconnect. I am so glad that Andy makes it as much of a priority as I feel it needs to be. We are all so much better because of it. One of the best parts of this trip was hooking up with my Aunt Jo and my cousin J a reminder of why family is so important. My kids adore both of them. More on that tomorrow. And Blake, well he had a headache. That happens when there are a lot of people around. lol<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":19051,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,20],"tags":[277,339,516,679],"class_list":["post-5070","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-family","category-travel","tag-florida","tag-harry-potter","tag-orlando","tag-universal-studios"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_8096-scaled.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5070","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5070"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5070\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19074,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5070\/revisions\/19074"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19051"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5070"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5070"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elisalou.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5070"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}